#+title: V01: It's Actually Pretty Easy to Get Girls
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* Links
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- [[../toc.org][TOC - How To Attract Women]]
- [[https://youtu.be/kcVRR1Qx4jA?si=EXGlmm_sLXjqmDL1][video 01 - it's easy to get girls]]

* Notes
** Affirmations
- see yourself as a man who women naturally desire
- you are confident and relaxed when you talk to women
- beauty is common
- a good woman is hard to find
- no matter how beatiful a woman is, with the right approach to attraction, any woman can be captivated
- you are a man that any woman would be genuinely interested in
- you never settle for anything but the best for you
- you have high standards and stick to them
- anything is attainable
- a high value man won't compromise his principles
- there are plenty of options out there
- you do not give all your value on the spot
- you are calm with challenging women
- you have control over where you are going
- anyone who deserves you, appreciates you
- others have to adapt to your reality
- you know there is an abundance of available women

** Basic Principles of Attraction

*** What is in your mind
- she feels what you feel
- they judge based on what you feel
  - nervousness causes rejection
  - if you are confident and relaxed it helps

*** don't bander
- don't go out of your way
- it's a sign of feeling inadequte

** never settle for anything but the best
*** soup example
- guy wants chicken soup but settles for tomato
- should have gone to a different restaurant

*** what you want
- find out your perfect woman
- there is no untainable
- a good woman is hard to find
  - loyal
  - fresh
  - innocent
  - common sense
  - disciplined
  - fun
  - beautiful
** always stand up for your principles
- you are willing to let go for principles
- you do not get intimidated
- e.g. girl threatens to walk
  - it seems we are not compatible
  - calmly walk away

** make the woman work for your attention
- women value men they put effort to understanding
- don't be an open book
- show some interest then disinterest
  - don't just give all your attention

** stick to your reality instead of molding to everyone else's
- don't just modify your behavior for other preferences

** embrace the abundance mindset with women
- no shortage of attractive women
- you dont' have a time limit
